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Tuesday, March 22, 2005

Lost friends

*sighs*
I just finished telling tyler that I don't want to be his friend until he can understand what it's like to be in a family, or at the very least, be married. I feel terrible, because I know it comes as a huge blow to him. I can't even explain how bad I feel, but I finally understand why it is that peopl say that married people shouldn't have single friends.
I just pissed one of my closest, longest friends off. Basically because he doesn't understand what it takes to be a responsible part of a family, or a parent.
He dropped in this weekend, and things just didn't go well for it.

1 thoughtful remarks:

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear that you feel badly about your decision, but sounds like it was a decision you felt you needed to make. How he took it and felt is his responsibility, not yours...don't feel guilty. Healthy boundaries are quite a responsibility and it feels even more so when one person has to take the responsibility to establish them. Ama